Nigaah Neechi Rakhne ka Asal Maqsad aur Galat Fahmiyan

Islam me nigaah ki hifazat ko bohot importance di gayi hai. Allah Ta’ala ne Qur’an me seedha order diya hai ke mard apni nigaah neeche rakhein, taake burai aur na-jaiz khwahishat se bacha jaa sake. Lekin aksar log is hukum ka asal matlab galat samajh lete hain.

Kuch log sochte hain ke “agar main dusron ki behen ya beti ko nahi dekhunga, toh koi meri behen beti ko bhi nahi dekhega.” Ye soch ek tarah ka barter deal lagti hai — main tumhari respect karoonga, tum meri karo. Yeh soch apne aap me buray nahi hai, kyunki yeh protective feeling hoti hai, lekin asal wisdom iss se zyada gehri hai.

Nigaah neeche rakhne ka asal reason Allah ka hukum hai, na ke sirf behen beti ka hona ya na hona. Chahe kisi ke ghar me behen beti ho ya na ho, har momin ko apni nigaah neeche rakhni chahiye. Ye sirf doosron ki izzat ki protection ke liye nahi, balki apne dil ko saaf rakhne, apne character ko control me rakhne aur apne nafs ko burai se bachane ka tariqa hai.

Jab aadmi nigaah neeche rakhta hai, toh wo apne andar unwanted thoughts, jealousy aur lust ko grow hone se rokhta hai. Society me respect aur safety tab aati hai jab har insaan apni zimmedari khud samjhe, na ke sirf fear ya “tit-for-tat” logic pe chale.

Toh ye galat fehmi door karni zaroori hai ke “main nahi dekhunga toh koi meri family ko nahi dekhega.” Asal baat ye hai ke nigaah neeche rakhna ek ibadat hai, ek taqwa ki nishani hai, aur Allah ka hukum hai jo har waqt applicable hai — chahe koi dekh raha ho ya na dekh raha ho.

Aakhir me simple baat: nigaah neeche rakhna sirf ek social courtesy nahi, balki ek spiritual protection bhi hai — apne liye, apne ghar walon ke liye, aur apne Rab ki khushi ke liye.